The Boy/Girl Thing

Perhaps the theory in "When Harry Met Sally" is correct. Boys and girls cannot be just friends. I hold a few exceptions, but as a whole I agree with this statement. I blame this on the men. Why can't a girl just have fun hanging out with the guys before one of them asks her out? She didn't go there to get hit on, but to enjoy some stereotypically denoted boy things, such as: scary movies, video games, sports, and Fear Factor grossness. I guess it is too much to expect that boys can see a girl as "one of the guys." It makes it so much harder to have fun.